The Fine Print
I know what I need to be a wholehearted yes to you. Everything here is that — laid out simply, so we arrive already at ease. Some of it will feel like common sense. All of it is worth a read, whether we're just meeting or you're already finding your way back.
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We're beginning something that requires vulnerability on multiple levels. Please be honest and transparent throughout this process. I trust that confidentiality matters greatly to you, just as it does to me.
Make it simple for me to confidently say yes to you.
I’ll need your legal name, date of birth, email address, and phone number, along with a live link to your LinkedIn profile with your name, a clear photo and 400+ connections.
If you don't have LinkedIn, I'll also accept a photo of you holding your driver's license (full name, photo, and date of birth visible) — which you can send separately via email.
1–2 trustworthy provider references from the last year (contact information and a link to their active website and ad) are welcome in addition to the above.
Once screening is complete, we’ll book a 30-minute initial video date via Signal. $100. Required before we meet in person.
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In Person Sessions - 35% deposit
Tours - 60% deposit
Video calls and virtual experiences - full amount required to book, nonrefundable
All deposits and gifts can be sent via CashApp, Venmo, Amazon Gift Card, or Bitcoin. For remainders owed, cash is preferred.
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If you're visiting me — place the consideration in an unsealed envelope, visibly on the table, before you freshen up.
If I'm visiting you — leave it in the bathroom before I arrive.
If we're meeting in public — an open envelope, a book, or a gift bag works. Please have it available within the first few minutes of our meeting.
Thank you for covering any expenses over the course of our date — dinner, tickets, and the like.
Gifts and tips are never expected, and always a lovely surprise.
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Local Bookings
Life happens. For cancellations with more than 48 hours' notice, 50% of your gift is requested. Within 48 hours, 100% of your gift is requested. No refunds.
Should I need to reschedule, your deposit will be applied to a new date within a month — or refunded if we can't find another time.
Tour Bookings
For cancellations with more than 7 days' notice, I keep your deposit as a cancellation fee. Within 7 days of our date, 100% of your gift is requested. Tour deposits are nonrefundable and non-transferable.
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Come freshly showered or you can shower at my incall. Brush your teeth, floss, and tongue scrape. Skip the fragrance: cologne, scented deodorant, aftershave. When you arrive, I'll invite you to wash your hands and use mouthwash.
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I live a sweet and spirited life, so my calendar fills quickly. The more advance notice, the better.
I'm based in the SF Bay Area and offer in-calls in the East Bay. I travel throughout the Bay Area for the additional consideration listed below. I do not meet at private residences, but I enjoy visiting you at your upscale hotel. If I arrange an alternate location for us, you'll reimburse me for the reservation.
Travel Fees & Booking Minimums
Berkeley/Oakland: no travel fee
San Francisco: 200 | 1.5 hour minimum
San Rafael/Marin County: 150 | 1.5 hour minimum
Santa Rosa Area: 200 | 2 hour minimum
South Bay: 300 | 3 hour minimum
Sacramento Area: 300 | 3 hour minimum
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Communication and transparency are incredibly sexy. Tell me what you've been imagining — a fantasy, a role play scenario, something you've been holding onto. I love creative collaboration, and chances are, I'm into it. If something doesn't feel good, I want to know that too. The more honest you are, the deeper this goes. If you're curious to grow, I'll offer guidance — there's real pleasure in becoming a more attuned, connected lover.
I take responsibility for naming my own limits and will always honor yours. What we build is grounded in ongoing, mutual consent — and changing your mind is always welcome. I expect warmth and respect in every interaction, before, during, and after our time together. If I feel disrespected or unsafe at any point, I'll end our date without a refund.
Please disclose any substance use before we meet. Keep our booking conversations free of explicit language. And if you'd like to stay connected between visits, ask me about ongoing arrangements.
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I take your privacy seriously. Everything you share with me is confidential. My email is end-to-end encrypted and I communicate through Signal. If you'd like an NDA, send it at least 24 hours before we meet and I'll sign it.
If you’ve read this far…I’d love to hear from you!
All fees are for time and companionship only. Whatever may transpire between us is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults and is not contracted for, negotiated, or agreed upon. Please do not send explicit requests of any kind. Any attempt to negotiate the nature of our time together in exchange for compensation will result in immediate termination of contact and forfeiture of deposit.