The Fine Print
Everything you need to know to get the most from our time together…Let’s get the logistics out of the way so we can play. While some of this may feel like common sense, please take a moment to read, whether you’re new or seasoned.
Disclaimer
All monetary donations and fees charged are for time and lawful companionship only. Whatever may transpire between us is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults and is not contracted for. Please do not send explicit requests for solicitation or sexual activity of any kind. Any attempt to negotiate lewd activities in exchange for money or other considerations will result in an end to all further contact and forfeiture of deposit.
Screening
All new clients must complete a standard screening process. We're beginning a journey that requires vulnerability on multiple levels. Please be honest and transparent throughout this process. The quicker we complete the formalities, the sooner we can enjoy an exquisite time together. I trust that confidentiality matters greatly to you, just as it does to me. Make it simple for me to confidently say yes to you.
Here is information I can use to verify you:
Legal name, email address and phone number. I must have this information to ensure both of our safety. I will not disturb you with unsolicited texts or calls.
Plus one of the following:
Option 1: Professional online presence
Well-established LinkedIn profile with your full name, a clear photo, and 300+ connections, OR company website with your name and photo
A profile photo is important so I can confirm the person I’ve screened is the person I meet in person.
Option 2: Photo ID
A selfie of you holding your driver's license (full name, photo, and DOB visible), OR a work badge with your full name, photo, and company name
Initial Video Call
For companionship or sensual domination bookings, all new clients begin with a 30-minute video call via Signal. $100.
Provider References
1-2 trustworthy provider references from the last year (must include contact information and a link to their website or active ad). Provider references alone do not substitute for photo verification.
Availability and Location
I live a sweet and spirited life, so my calendar fills quickly. The more advance notice, the better!
I’m based in the SF Bay Area and offer incalls at a private space in Oakland. I'm happy to travel throughout the Bay Area for the additional consideration listed below. I do not meet at private residences, but I enjoy visiting you at your upscale hotel. If I book an alternate location for us, such as a hotel or dungeon, you'll reimburse me for the reservation.
Travel Fees & Booking Minimums
Berkeley/Oakland: no travel fee
San Francisco: 150 | 1.5 hour minimum
San Rafael/Marin County: 150 | 1.5 hour minimum
Santa Rosa Area: 200 | 2 hour minimum
South Bay: 300 | 3 hour minimum
Sacramento Area: 300 | 3 hour minimum
Preparation
What helps my body open to yours is knowing yours is clean and well cared for. I take exquisite care to prepare for our date and I ask that you do the same.
I will be freshly showered for our date, and I ask that you do the same. You may shower at my incall location at the start of our date, if needed.
Brush your teeth, floss and tongue scrape.
I prefer the scent of clean skin over deodorants or cologne—skip the fragrances if you can.
I’ll invite you to freshen up when you arrive. Please wash your hands with soap and use the mouthwash provided.
Deposit
To secure our in-person experience, a non-refundable deposit of 30% is required.
Deposits and fees can be sent via CashApp, Amazon Gift Card, Venmo or Bitcoin.
Virtual sessions and video dates must be paid in full at the time of booking.
Consideration
If you’re visiting me, place the consideration in an unsealed envelope, visibly on the table before freshening up.
If I’m visiting you, please leave it in the bathroom prior to my arrival.
If we are meeting in public, the consideration must be made obvious and in plain sight in an open envelope, a book you enjoy, or in a gift bag, and made available within the first few minutes of our meeting.
Thank you for paying for any expenses incurred over the course of our date, such as dinner or event tickets.
Gifts and tips are never expected, but always a sweet surprise—flowers, lingerie, or something that made you think of me.
All donations are for my time, presence, and companionship. What occurs during our time together is a private matter between consenting adults and is not contracted for, negotiated, or agreed upon.
Consent And Communication
Communication and transparency are incredibly sexy! I meet with open-hearted companions who show up with respect, presence, and a true desire for embodied connection.
Please do tell if there’s something special you’ve been fantasizing about—role play, a certain outfit, a scene you’ve been craving. I love creative collaboration with my lovers, and chances are, I’m into it too.
If there’s something you’re longing for—or something that doesn’t feel good—I want to know. The more honest you are, the more we can create something real. Let me know you’re curious to grow, and I’ll offer gentle guidance to help you become a more attuned, connected lover.
I take responsibility for naming my boundaries and will always honor yours. Together, we'll co-create an experience of mutual, ongoing consent, where changing your mind is welcome. I expect kindness and respect in all our interactions—before, during, and after our time together. My boundaries are non-negotiable, and if at any point I feel disrespected or unsafe, I will end our time immediately without offering a refund.
If you’d like to connect and casually chat between encounters, ask me about digital arrangements.
Please be mindful of and disclose any substance use.
Please do not use explicit language when booking or planning our date.
Cancellations & Rescheduling
Life happens - if you need to reschedule, contact me as early as possible and we'll work something out.
In the unlikely event that I need to reschedule, your deposit will be applied to another date within 30 days or refunded if we are not able to reschedule.
If you're not feeling well on the day of our date, please reschedule! Thank you for helping me stay healthy.
Video calls are nonrefundable.
For cancellations within 48 hours of our in-person date, 50% of your gift is requested.
For cancellations within 24 hours of our in-person date, 100% of your gift is requested.
No refunds.
Privacy
Rest assured that I value discretion and have the utmost respect for your privacy. Everything you share with me is completely confidential. My email is end-to-end encrypted and I offer messaging over an encrypted texting app. I'm happy to sign an NDA if sent at least 24 hours in advance of our date.