The Fine Print
I know what I need to be a wholehearted yes to you. Everything here is that — laid out simply, so we arrive already at ease. Some of it will feel like common sense. All of it is worth a read, whether we're just meeting or you're already finding your way back.
Screening
We're beginning something that requires vulnerability on multiple levels. Please be honest and transparent throughout this process. I trust that confidentiality matters greatly to you, just as it does to me.
Make it simple for me to confidently say yes to you.
I’ll need your legal name, date of birth, email address, and phone number, along with a live link to your LinkedIn profile with your name, a clear photo and 400+ connections.
1–2 trustworthy provider references from the last year (contact information and a link to their active website or ad) are welcome in addition to the above.
Once screening is complete, we’ll book a 30-minute initial video date via Signal. $100. Required before we meet in person.
Preparation
What helps my body open to yours is knowing yours is clean and well cared for. I prepare for you with the same attention I'm asking of you.
Come freshly showered — a shower is available at my incall if you need it on arrival. Brush your teeth, floss, and tongue scrape beforehand. Skip the fragrance: cologne, scented deodorant, aftershave. Clean skin is what I want. When you arrive, I'll invite you to wash your hands and use the mouthwash provided.
Deposit & Consideration
A non-refundable deposit of 30% is required to secure our in-person date. Deposits can be sent via CashApp, Venmo, and Bitcoin. Video calls and virtual dates are paid in full at the time of booking.
Presenting your gift:
If you're visiting me — place the consideration in an unsealed envelope, visibly on the table, before you freshen up.
If I'm visiting you — leave it in the bathroom before I arrive.
If we're meeting in public — an open envelope, a book, or a gift bag works. Please have it available within the first few minutes of our meeting.
Thank you for covering any expenses over the course of our date — dinner, tickets, and the like.
Gifts and tips are never expected, and always a lovely surprise.
Location & Availability
I live a sweet and spirited life, so my calendar fills quickly. The more advance notice, the better.
I'm based in the SF Bay Area and offer in-calls in the East Bay. I travel throughout the Bay Area for the additional consideration listed below. I do not meet at private residences, but I enjoy visiting you at your upscale hotel. If I arrange an alternate location for us, you'll reimburse me for the reservation.
Travel Fees & Booking Minimums
Berkeley/Oakland: no travel fee
San Francisco: 200 | 1.5 hour minimum
San Rafael/Marin County: 150 | 1.5 hour minimum
Santa Rosa Area: 200 | 2 hour minimum
South Bay: 300 | 3 hour minimum
Sacramento Area: 300 | 3 hour minimum
Cancellations & Rescheduling
Life happens. You may reschedule once within 30 days of our original date. Reach out as early as you can.
Your deposit transfers to the new date if you reach out at least 24 hours in advance. Less than 24 hours, the deposit does not transfer.
If you're not feeling well, please reach out as soon as you know.
For cancellations: within 48 hours of our date, 50% of your gift is requested. Within 24 hours, 100% is requested. No refunds. Video calls are nonrefundable.
Should I need to reschedule, your deposit will be applied to a new date within 30 days — or refunded if we can't find another time.
Consent & Communication
Communication and transparency are incredibly sexy. Tell me what you've been imagining — a fantasy, a role play scenario, something you've been holding onto. I love creative collaboration, and chances are, I'm into it. If something doesn't feel good, I want to know that too. The more honest you are, the deeper this goes. If you're curious to grow, I'll offer guidance — there's real pleasure in becoming a more attuned, connected lover.
I take responsibility for naming my own limits and will always honor yours. What we build is grounded in ongoing, mutual consent — and changing your mind is always welcome. I expect warmth and respect in every interaction, before, during, and after our time together. If I feel disrespected or unsafe at any point, I'll end our date without a refund.
Please disclose any substance use before we meet. Keep our booking conversations free of explicit language — that energy is best saved for in person. And if you'd like to stay connected between visits, ask me about ongoing arrangements.
Privacy
I take your privacy seriously. Everything you share with me is confidential. My email is end-to-end encrypted and I communicate through Signal. If you'd like an NDA, send it at least 24 hours before we meet and I'll sign it.
If you’ve read this far — I’d love to hear from you.
All fees are for time and companionship only. Whatever may transpire between us is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults and is not contracted for, negotiated, or agreed upon. Please do not send explicit requests of any kind. Any attempt to negotiate the nature of our time together in exchange for compensation will result in immediate termination of contact and forfeiture of deposit.