I come alive in many ways. With you, it’s devotion — to what’s forming between us, to the unhurried truth of it.
I am the woman who notices when presence leaves the room — and the one who brings it back. I move through an encounter with my whole attention, my whole warmth, my whole self. When you give me patience and presence, something rare happens: you get to witness a woman actually opening to you. Not performing the shape of what connection is supposed to look like. Opening. My body opens for patience. For presence. For the man who has arrived.
I love getting dressed for a real evening out just as much as I love a day with no plan and bare feet. A long dinner somewhere worth the reservation, a trail that leads somewhere neither of us knew about — I show up to both with my whole heart lit. What I’ve come to understand is that my love for being alive is contagious. Time together tends to feel like permission: to want what you want, feel what you’re feeling, until the mask becomes unnecessary and something more electric takes its place.
Some of my favorite dates come for a beautiful evening and leave having felt something they didn’t expect. Some come because they want to do the work — on themselves, on their capacity for intimacy, on the kind of lover they want to become. Some come because they’re hungry for something real and haven’t quite known where to find it. I know that hunger. It’s part of why I do this.
Whether you come wanting a beautiful evening or something you haven’t found words for yet — you don’t need a name for it. Just the desire for something real.
“I never felt so paid-attention to as you did to me.”
“The first thing I noticed about Kaia was her energy. She has a warmth and an expansive, loving way of being... She didn’t try to offer me solutions, or promise to fix me. She just listened.”
“I just got back from connecting with a human in New Mexico, and it was one of the most magical experiences in my life. It was love and it was lust and it was aliveness and it was terrifying and it was beautiful. We purred. We sunbathed naked. We cried. And it would have never happened were it not for our work together, and how it helped me expand my heart to embrace how BIG and tantalizing love can be.”
Let’s Meet First
100 / 30 minutes / Via Signal
Before we meet in person, I want to actually meet you. A short video call — thirty minutes to feel the chemistry, get a real sense of each other, and make sure we’re both excited to go further. Required before we meet in person.
Considerations
A Taste
1.5 hours | 2500
A quick spark.
2 hours | 2800
Just long enough to leave you wishing we'd planned for more.
Evenings
3 hours | 3300
Time to slow down and drop in together. My favorite first date.
4 hours | 4000
More time, more trust. Space to let things really deepen.
5 hours | 4500
Conversation that surprises us over a long, lingering dinner.
6 hours | 5000
A whole evening together, and more of me comes out to play.
Immersions
Overnight | 16 hours | 6000
My humor comes out, I'll sing for you, and we get to share the kind of time that feels like a gift.
A Full Day | 24 hours | 10,000
My love for life is infectious. A full day together and you'll feel it in your bones.
A Weekend | 48 hours | 15,000
Two days together. The adventure, the stillness, everything in between. Something accumulates when you share that many moments and moods with someone.
A Getaway | 3+ days | please inquire by email
Days away together, long enough to arrive somewhere ordinary life rarely reaches. Sustained time and closeness leave you more known than when you came.
Good to Know
3 hours recommended for a first date
4+ hours include a meal together
5+ hours include time out in the world
See The Fine Print page for travel fees that may apply
Fly Me To You is an overnight minimum
“Our date was one of the most life changing experiences that I’ve ever had. You proved to me that the type of human connection I want is possible and exists.”
“It was very significant and quietly transformational.”
Monthly Dating
10,000 / month
Some connections are worth returning to. Not a passing spark, but a steady flame — the kind that gets warmer and more interesting the more you tend it.
There’s a particular richness that comes from being known over time. I come to know the laugh that surprises even you, the moment your eyes say the thing before your mouth does, the exhale you didn’t know you were holding. Honestly, I love it…being known like that.
Two priority dates each month, including an overnight. Ongoing connection between visits — voice notes, real conversation, presence that doesn’t go quiet between returns. Priority scheduling and exclusive access.
I’m already looking forward to the version of this that neither of us can predict yet.
Ask about multi-month arrangements.
“We have a real connection that is worth spending time on.”
— Client
Vacations
I don’t need to be coaxed into adventure.
The tropics are where I thrive. The heat, the water, the wildness, the lushness of it all — everything amplifies my aliveness there. The ocean does something specific to me: weightless and completely grounded at the same time, cleansed and fully myself, sitting where the tide meets the shore and feeling like everything is exactly as it should be. New cities light me up differently — the textures and flavors of different cultures, the joy of discovering that the world is still full of things I haven’t tasted and seen yet. Scuba certified, chronically curious, already in love with where we’re going. I have a gift for making ordinary places feel like the trip you’ll return to in memory for years.
A few places I’ve been dreaming about: The Galápagos. Bali. Thailand. Japan. Iceland. Italy. The Greek islands. Anywhere with water I can dive in.
Whether we’re dreaming something up together, the trip is already taking shape and you want me with you, or you’re traveling for work and ready to be nourished by gorgeous and gracious feminine energy at the end of the day — I would love to be there!
Tell me where you have in mind. Chances are, I’m in.
“Thanks for a beautiful experience, one of the best in recent memory. You are so gracious, kind, and exciting — and I’m glad to have the chance to know you. Thank you for your patience, generosity, and for sharing yourself with me.”
“I knew it was going to be magical in my imagination, but it has already felt much more special than I imagined. Truly grateful for your presence.”
Couples
As a bisexual woman who genuinely loves this kind of exploration, I bring more to a couple’s experience than presence — I bring a quality of attention that can feel into two people simultaneously, and into what moves between them. I’ve moved through this dynamic many times, in many forms, and that ease is something you feel. A woman softening under genuine desire — truly received, not simply included — is something I know how to give, and I love giving it. Whether I’m joining your play as a third, or holding the space while you find your way toward each other, what I’m tending is three distinct things: you, her, and the living field between you.
Whatever you’re imagining, I’d love to hear about it.
Add 250/hour to my rate.
More Than Two
Should you want more than two, I have friends who would be delighted to join us — inquire for details. I also have a male companion who is equally attentive and adventurous. Rate: my rate plus theirs, matched to the higher of the two.
Ongoing Connection
It’s simple: I like getting to know people in a real way — to share presence, laughter, curiosity, warmth, flirting, teasing, and vulnerability. We find our own rhythm, whether that means playful banter, thoughtful check-ins, or slow-building tension. Through the Signal app.
Video Date
30 minutes / 300 · 1 hour / 500
Virtual GFE
Texting, photos, voice messages
Per week / 800 · 3 days / 500 · 1 day / 300
Monthly / 3,000 / Ongoing connection through texting, photos, and voice notes, plus two 30-minute video dates for deeper presence and conversation.
“I feel 1,000x lighter... I feel more secure and confident in my sense of self, I feel more joy, and I feel more playful in all of my relationships, romantic and otherwise. I feel like I’ve come home.”
“After our dates, I feel lighter. I feel more connected to who I REALLY am.”
“Thank you for opening my eyes and my heart and my sex to my real self.”
If any of this sounds like what you’ve been looking for — even if you don’t quite have the words for it yet — I’d love to hear from you.