Etiquette

Everything you need to know to get the most from our time together…Let’s get the logistics out of the way so we can play.

While some of this may feel like common sense, please take a moment to read, whether you’re new or seasoned.

Screening

LinkedIn Profile (clear profile photo and 100+ connections). Provider references will also help me to complete verification. Please share the contact information (phone or email) and website of another provider that can share a positive reference for you.

Initial Video Call

I like to begin with a 30-minute video call—a chance for us to meet, share presence, and decide if we want to dive deeper. This is required before booking an in-person experience with me. Through the Signal app. Video call | $100

Hygiene

What helps my body open to yours is knowing yours is clean and well cared for. Please arrive freshly showered, with your teeth brushed and tongue scraped. I prefer the scent of clean skin over deodorants or cologne—skip the fragrances if you can. I’ll invite you to shower if you didn’t before arriving. Please wash your hands with soap and use the mouthwash provided.

Upon Arrival

Let’s begin our connection clean, clear and without distraction. Place the consideration in an unsealed envelope, visibly on the table before freshening up. If I’m visiting you, please leave it in the restroom prior to my arrival. For public meetings, use a small gift bag, card, or book. Gifts and tips are never expected, but always a sweet surprise—flowers, lingerie, or something that made you think of me.

Consent And Communication

Communication and transparency is incredibly sexy! I meet with open-hearted companions who show up with respect, presence, and a true desire for embodied connection.

Please do tell if there’s something special you’ve been fantasizing about—role play, a certain outfit, a scene you’ve been craving. I love creative collaboration with my lovers, and chances are, I’m into it too.

If there’s something you’re longing for—or something that doesn’t feel good—I want to know. The more honest you are, the more we can create something real. Let me know you’re curious to grow, and I’ll offer gentle guidance to help you become a more attuned, connected lover.

I take responsibility for naming my boundaries and will always honor yours. Together, we’ll co-create an experience of mutual, ongoing consent, where changing your mind is welcome. If I need to repeat a boundary, the experience will end without refund. If you’d like to connect and casually chat between encounters, ask me about digital arrangements. Please be mindful of and disclose any substance use.

Please do not use explicit language when booking or planning our date—my rates are for time and companionship only. Nothing else is offered or implied.

Cancellations

Cancellations within 72 hours of our in-person date: 50% of payment is requested.

Cancellations within 48 hours of our in-person date: 100% of payment is requested.

Tour and FMTY dates must be cancelled with a week’s notice.

All deposits and digital arrangements are non-refundable unless I cancel, in which case you will be offered a refund or applying the deposit to a future date.

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