The Fine Print

Screening

My preferred screening method includes a photo of your ID (full name, photo, and DOB visible) paired with something to back it up, such as a LinkedIn profile, work website, or business card.

  • LinkedIn Profile (clear profile photo and 100+ connections)

  • Photo of your ID (address can be hidden)

  • Provider references will also help me to complete verification. Please share the contact information (phone or email) and website of another provider that can share a positive reference for you.

Initial Video Call

  • I like to begin with a 30-minute video call—a chance for us to meet, share presence, and decide if we want to dive deeper.

  • This is required before booking an in-person experience with me.

  • Through the Signal app. Video call | $100

Deposit

  • To secure our in-person engagement, a non-refundable deposit of 25% is required.

  • Deposits and fees can be sent via CashApp, Amazon Gift Card, or Venmo.

  • Virtual sessions and video dates must be paid in full at the time of booking.

Hygiene

What helps my body open to yours is knowing yours is clean and well cared for.

  • Please arrive freshly showered, with your teeth brushed and tongue scraped.

  • I prefer the scent of clean skin over deodorants or cologne—skip the fragrances if you can.

  • I’ll invite you to shower if you didn’t before arriving.

  • Please wash your hands with soap and use the mouthwash provided.

Upon Arrival

Let’s begin our connection clean, clear and without distraction.

  • Place the consideration in an unsealed envelope, visibly on the table before freshening up.

  • If I’m visiting you, please leave it in the bathroom prior to my arrival.

  • For public meetings, use a small gift bag, card, or book.

  • Gifts and tips are never expected, but always a sweet surprise—flowers, lingerie, or something that made you think of me.

  • Donations are for my time only.

Availability And Location

  • I host at a private space in San Rafael. I also enjoy visiting you at your upscale hotel. Travel fees vary depending on your location. I do not meet at private residences. If I’m responsible for booking a different location for us, a location fee will apply.

  • I live a sweet and spirited life—planning in advance helps us land in each other’s orbit. Every now and then, I have space for a same-day rendezvous. Send a message via my booking form and we’ll see what’s possible. The more advance notice, the better!

Safety And Communication

I only meet with kind, respectful clients who show up with a genuine desire for heart-centered, embodied connection.

  • Please do not use explicit language when booking or planning our date—my rates are for time and companionship only. Nothing else is offered or implied.

  • I take responsibility for naming my boundaries and will always honor yours. I encourage you to be honest about your own limits and desires—this is what allows real intimacy to unfold.

  • Together, we’ll co-create an experience of mutual, ongoing consent, where changing your mind is welcome.

  • If I need to repeat a boundary, the experience will end without refund.

  • If you’d like to connect and casually chat between encounters, ask me about digital arrangements.

  • Please be mindful of and disclose any substance use.

Disclosure

All donations are for my time, presence, and companionship. What occurs during our time together is a private matter between consenting adults and is not contracted for, negotiated, or agreed upon. Please do not send explicit requests for solicitation or sexual activity of any kind. Any attempt to compromise my position on these matters will result in immediate termination of our time together, forfeiture of all donations, and a permanent end to further contact.

Cancellation & Rescheduling

I ask that cancellations are made at least 48 hours in advance.

  • Your deposit is transferable to a rescheduled session if 48 hours’ notice is given.

  • Cancellations within 48 hours of our in-person date: 50% of payment is requested.

  • Cancellations within 24 hours of our in-person date: 100% of payment is requested.

  • Donations for video calls, digital arrangements, and session bundles are non-refundable.

  • Touring: If you cancel or rescheduling is requested within 7 days of your session, the deposit is non-refundable and non-transferable. For cancellations made earlier than 7 days, the deposit may be applied toward a rescheduled session.

Relax

I encourage you to let go of any attachments to an agenda or goal. Know that I am celebrating you for investing your precious resources of  time, attention, energy, intention, focus, and finances into something that truly matters to the both of us. This is sacred, holy work and it is nothing short of revolutionary. Celebrate yourself for making the conscious choice to dive deep into your body, mind, soul, shadows and sexuality…I’m excited to create an unforgettable journey together.

  • “Any anxiety I had when I arrived quickly vaporized. I surrendered completely to her beautiful face and deep, caring eyes. As a Tantric Bodyworker myself, I not only enjoyed every moment, but also learned so much about how to create a truly supportive experience. I felt adored, cherished, and safe. She is the ultimate master.”

  • “You have this beauty—inside and out. Your exterior is stunning, and your spirit is just as radiant. The loving, caring nature you carry… from the sparkle in your eye to the essence of your soul—it’s all beauty. The persistence of your passion has helped me reach depths I’ve never touched before. You want to show others and take humans to these great depths—that’s why I hired you.”

  • “My experiences with you are exhilarating, liberating, and full of acceptance. You encourage me to open my heart and mind even further, and you make that openness possible with safety, security, acceptance, guidance, and sexiness.”

  • “Before working with you, I was facing challenges with ED, self-worth, self-confidence, and self-doubt. I had tried therapy and sex therapy, but they didn’t help—so I decided to try a more holistic approach. Since working with you, my life has changed in ways that are hard to describe, but definitely profound.”

  • “I’ve cultivated a new sense of self-love, acceptance, and gratitude. The world feels more vibrant, I’m happier, and I feel more satisfied in my whole existence. It was truly groundbreaking to discover my kinks, lean into them, and accept them without shame, guilt, or fear. I’m no longer living a life of repression.”

  • “You offered nothing but love and support, even when I felt emotionally closed off, shy, or embarrassed. It was beautiful and revelatory to be introduced to the concepts and philosophies of tantra.”

  • “Mind-blowing in the highest sense! Working with you put me in touch with kindness and love. A sense of humanity was reawakened inside me.”

  • “It was clear to me from the moment we got on the phone that your words were sincere—that you invest in grounding your energy and listening to your intuition. I knew you walked the walk. You didn’t promise miracles—you saw me in my vulnerability and offered your presence and support.”

  • “I feel a thousand times lighter. Conquering some of these sexual demons was eye-opening—not just for my sex life, but for my life as a whole. I feel more secure and confident in myself, more joyful, and more playful in all my relationships, romantic and otherwise. I feel like I’ve come home.”

  • “I feel more excited to explore—to connect with more people, and to live a life open to the possibility that I can’t even imagine how beautiful and wonderful it might be.”

  • “You were immediately affectionate, which disarmed a lot of my worries. Your gaze is so powerful—even in our last session, I sometimes felt slightly intimidated by it!”

  • “I think your work could save so many marriages. The conversation around a dying sex life is filled with preconceptions and prickly edges. Creating a space for a man to express his frustrations and desires without judgment—to find his sexual compass—feels incredibly valuable.”

  • “So much of what we touched on were things I’ve worked on for years with a coach—but practicing them in a naked, raw, sexual context added a kind of electricity that’s hard to replicate. For anyone wanting to connect with their authentic self, exploring what that looks like sexually feels so important.”

  • “Before working with you, I knew there was a gap between my current relationship to sex and the one I wanted—but it felt both infinite and impossible to measure. I didn’t know where to start. I didn’t have a safe place to go, and there was a feeling of hopelessness about my sex life. With you, that first step was finally possible.”

  • “The first thing I noticed about you was your energy. You have a warmth and an expansive, loving way of being that was immediately clear. You didn’t try to offer solutions or promise to fix me—you simply listened. You held a space that felt safe enough to speak the terrifying things I didn’t feel I could bring anywhere else.”

  • “After our sessions, I feel lighter—more connected to who I really am, in and out of the bedroom. Most importantly, I no longer feel dread or anxiety about entering a new sexual relationship. I know how I want to show up, and that’s more than I ever could have asked for.”

  • “I feel so much more at ease in my life now. I can slow down, go with the flow, and let things unfold in their own timing. My perspective on sexuality has completely shifted—what once felt like a means to an end now feels like a spectrum of expression that’s empowering, liberating, energizing, magical, and fun.”

  • “I have more self-compassion now. By recognizing my relationship with myself, I’ve come to genuinely like who I am—especially in how I relate to others.”

  • “Working with you has been truly wonderful. I’ve been especially impressed by your preparation, knowledge, and authenticity. I also appreciated the way you expressed your boundaries—with both kindness and clarity. You model so many healthy behaviors.”

  • “The biggest highlight for me was exposing my full self to someone—you immediately made me feel safe to be myself sexually, even when it felt embarrassing or awkward.”

  • “I strongly recommend your 1:1 mentorship—you’ve changed my life. I never considered sexuality in a spiritual way before working with you, but you showed me how it can be a source of transformative energy. You embody a powerful, infectious enthusiasm for life, balanced with deep spiritual maturity and wisdom.”

  • “Because you made me feel so comfortable, I was able to be completely open and exposed in a safe environment. I have more confidence now and enjoy sex so much more. You are a one-of-a-kind embodiment of enlightened energy—a true dakini.”

  • “Magic is the perfect word for what it feels like to be in your presence.”

  • “You are so natural at what you do. You helped light the path for me to see a part of myself that had been lost in the dark. Thank you, from my heart and soul, for co-creating such an incredible and enlightening experience.”

  • “Thank you for such an amazing, truly transcendent and transformational experience.”

  • “It’s like you took me to a state of consciousness I’d never reached before. You offered a space where I could be anything and everything without judgment or discomfort. I was my raw self—walls I’d built for years finally stripped away.”

  • “Thank you for everything—the thrills, the potent teachings, the transformational experiences, and your steady support through it all.”

  • “Our session was one of the most life-changing experiences I’ve ever had. You showed me that the kind of human connection I long for is real and possible. The pleasure was incredible, but it was also a deep, soulful experience. My body shame didn’t matter. You should be proud of the work you do in this world.”

  • “You were everything I was hoping for—a true Tantrika who embodies the pure spirit of Tantra, sourced from a place of compassion and kindness. I had an amazing time, and my Tantra journey will rise as I embody and share what I learned.”