Elevate Your Intimacy

Initiations to feel ecstatically alive and divinely embodied

I love exploring with humans of all abilities, experience levels, races and genders, and I am LGBTQ+ and ethical non-monogamist-friendly. I’d be happy to discuss with you how Tantra and BDSM play can amplify all your relations.

We live in a world where we are not taught how to love ourselves or liberate our sexual expression. By nature, we are erotic beings. We have desires and fantasies and get excited. However, we are conditioned by society to believe that our sexuality is bad and wrong. We don’t give ourselves the fullest permission to explore our own erotic body because of shame and guilt. This leads us to not only not knowing our bodies, but not feeling safe in them. As long as we hold fear, that fear is going to distance ourselves from our power, our holiness and our relationships. Most people would rather go into distraction and addiction than look deeply into and feel the trauma and uncomfortable sensations and memories that are stored in the body on a cellular level. As we do the deep inner work around intimacy, we feel more vibrant and connected.

Tantra encompasses every aspect of living. It’s about how we live, how we breathe, eat, sleep, work, play and love. Tantra is a practice of living life in a way that creates power and magic. Tantra does not exclude any portion of the human experience - it includes the full spectrum of humanity. It embraces the shadow and the light. It gives permission for every experience, especially the ones that are not usually accepted.

Let’s embark on a journey to help you feel more pleasure, purpose and fulfillment than you ever thought possible…

COUPLES

Successful couples have mastered these 3 pillars, whether they realize it’s Tantra or not:

  1. Deep listening, attunement, co-regulation and healthy communication

  2. Infinite trust in themselves, each other, and Spirit

  3. An erotic flame that burns brighter, year after year

When I work with couples, these are the three pillars that serve as the foundation of our explorations. 

Couples come to me feeling frustrated, fragmented, and on the verge of separating. Whether monogamous, polyamorous, or somewhere in between, they’re usually facing challenges such as:

  • Sexual incompatibility & conflicting desires

  • Jealousy, insecurity, possessiveness

  • Communication breakdowns

  • Post-honeymoon phase monotony 

  • Deciding whether to stay together or break up

And sometimes, they’re feeling solid in their union and want to celebrate by sharing an expansive, erotic experience!

In our sessions, the intention is to cultivate safety, harmony, and erotic union between you and your partner. We will explore both your individual and mutual desires and intentions.

Through a shared journey of tantric breathwork, intersubjective meditation, guided touch, and coaching – each partner taps into their power. And in finding your individual power, together you’ll create a newly impassioned union…filled with emotional connection, honest communication, and erotic enchantment.

The focus can be solely placed on the bond with your partner, or it has the potential to expand and include the exploration of intimacy involving a third party.

MEN

King, I see you.

You’ve got the job, the house, the car, and maybe even the partner you’ve always strived for.

Yet still, something feels to be missing. There’s an insatiable hunger in you so strong, sometimes you question if your desires are compulsions. 

I’m here to tell you that your longing for deeper intimacy is not a flaw in your character. It’s a symptom of this wildly disconnected world we live in.

Here’s the remedy: It’s in you experiencing a relationship with another where your desires are not wrong, your sexuality is not shameful, and your masculine power is seen and celebrated. The first step to this delicious and devotional external relationship, is to cultivate a reverent relationship with all parts of yourself. My work is for spiritual seekers who crave a journey beyond the physical.

If you allow me to be your muse, you will…

  • Create balance in your masculine and feminine energies, to feel an embodied sense of inner union and wholeness

  • Feel your body and express your emotions

  • Explore fantasies and liberate from shame slaveries

  • Experience your sexuality as sacred and holy

  • Re-pattern arousal to a non-goal oriented experience

  • Develop physical awareness and sensitivity to expand pleasure and appreciate the full spectrum of sensation

  • Receive touch and experience the satisfaction of being deeply attuned to

  • Express yourself authentically, while feeling loved, accepted, and seen

  • Feel empowered as you discover desires, fears, boundaries, needs and learn to communicate them with a partner

  • Learn how to expand your capacity when experiencing heightened sensation and prolong ejaculation

Ready to begin?

WOMEN

Sister, I’m here for you.

The women who come to me are seekers drawn to the mystery of tantra, hungry to discover their wild, sexy, liberated radiance.

Perhaps you’ve noticed another woman who seems to inhabit her body in a way that inspires you, and you’re longing to know what she knows.

She glows with confidence. She’s juicy and alive. She’s unashamed of her body. 

If you’re ready to take a powerful step forward to becoming the most sexually awakened version of yourself, and you want to do so within the safe container of 1:1 with a trusted sister, I’m here to guide you.

As a result of our work together, you will…

  • Create healthy boundaries for yourself

  • Provide yourself with safety and inner security

  • Become irresistible to your desired lovers

  • Create balance in your masculine and feminine energies, to feel an embodied sense of inner union and wholeness

  • Experience more freedom and sovereignty in your relationships than ever before

  • Learn to truly love your body and accept yourself, so that you radiate delight and playfulness

  • Enhance your creativity in the realms of seduction, flirtation and magnetism

Feeling curious with full-bodied tingles?

Client Love

  • "Kaia has this beauty…in and out. Her exterior beauty is amazingly gorgeous and her inner spirit is just as beautiful. The loving caring nature she has…from the sparkle in her eye, to the nature of her soul…beauty in and out. The persistence of her passion has helped me go to depths I’ve never been before. Kaia wants to show others and take humans to these great depths…that is why I hired her."  

    Jay, CEO

  • “My experiences with Mistress Kaia are exhilarating, liberating, and full of acceptance. She encourages me to open my heart and my mind even further. She helps make this openness possible with safety, security, acceptance, guidance and sexiness.”

    Ted, Artist

  • “Before working with Kaia I was facing challenges of ED, self-worth, self confidence, self doubt. I have had therapy and sex therapy about my issues, and they didn't work so I decided to experiment and try a more holistic approach. Working with Kaia my life has changed so much, it is hard to describe, but definitely profound.”

    A.S., Musician

  • “I’ve cultivated a new sense of self love, acceptance and gratitude. The world is more vibrant, I am happier, and have more satisfaction in my entire existence. It was truly groundbreaking to discover my kinks and what turns me on, and to fully lean into them and accept them without shame, guilt, or fear. I am no longer living a life of repression.”

    J.B., Engineer

  • “There was nothing but love and support even when emotionally I felt closed off, shy or embarrassed. It was beautiful and revelatory to be introduced to the concepts and philosophies of tantra.”

    R.L., Physician

  • “Mind blowing in the highest sense! Working with Kaia put me in touch with kindness and love. A sense of humanity was reawaked inside of me.”

    K.F., Attorney

  • “It was so clear to me from the moment we got on the phone that Kaia’s words were sincere, that she invested in the practice of grounding her energy and listening to her intuition - I knew that she walked the walk. She didn't promise miracles. She didn't give me a framework or system - She just saw me in my vulnerability and offered to help.”

    Drew, Performing Artist

  • “I feel 1,000x lighter. Conquering some of these sexual demons was eye-opening not only to the possibilities in my sex life but in my life as a whole. I feel more secure and confident in my sense of self, I feel more joy, and I feel more playful in all of my relationships, romantic and otherwise. I feel like I've come home.”

    T.S., Manager

  • “I feel more excited to explore! To connect with more people. To live a life open to the possibility that I can't even imagine how beautiful and wonderful it can all be.”

    J.W., CEO

  • “Kaia was immediately affectionate, which disarmed a lot of my worries. Her gaze is also so powerful. Even through our last session, sometimes I felt slightly intimidated by it!”

    Alex, CEO

  • “I think that Kaia’s work could save so many marriages. The conversation about a dying sex life between two partners is RIFE with so many pre-conceived notions and prickly bits. I think that creating a space for a man to just express his frustrations and desires without judgment, to find his sexual compass, would be so valuable for them.”

    H.J., Engineer

  • “I think that so much of what we touched on are areas that I've worked on for years with a coach in other areas of my life, but practicing them in a naked, raw, sexual context just added an electricity to them that is so hard to replicate. For those that really want to get in touch with their authentic selves, I think figuring out what that looks like in a sexual context is so important.”

    A.H., Consultant

  • “Before working with Kaia, I knew that a gap existed between my current relationship to sex and the one that I wanted. But that gap felt somehow infinite and impossible to measure at the same time. I didn't know where to start. I didn't have a safe place to go to, and there was a feeling of hopelessness about my sex life.”

    Eric, Dentist

  • “The first thing I noticed about Kaia was her energy. She has a warmth and an expansive, loving way of being that was obvious, even over the phone. She didn't try to offer me solutions, or promise to fix me. She just listened. She was a caring human capable of holding a space that felt safe to talk about all of the terrifying things that I didn't feel like I could bring anywhere.”

    Mark, Artist

  • “After our sessions, I feel lighter. I feel more connected to who I REALLY am, in and out of the bedroom. And, most importantly, perhaps, I don't feel any lingering dread or anxiety about entering a new sexual relationship. I know how I want to show up, and that's more than I could have ever asked for.”

    T.D., Music Therapist

  • “I feel much more at ease in my life now. I'm much more able to slow down, go with the flow, and let things arise and develop in their own timing. I have a completely different perspective on sexuality; before, I saw sex as a means to an end, now, I recognize a whole spectrum of sexual activity that can be empowering, liberating, energizing, magic, and fun!”

    Jon, IT Pro

  • “I have more self-compassion now, through recognizing my own relationship with myself, I like who I am a lot better today, especially in the context of interactions with others.”

    A.C., Accountant

  • “Working with Kaia has been really wonderful overall and I have been especially impressed by her preparation, knowledge, and authenticity. I also appreciated Kaia’s boundaries and how she expressed them with kindness and clarity. She models so many healthy behaviors!”

    B.T., Nutritionist

  • “The biggest highlight for me has been exposing my full self to someone; Kaia immediately made me feel safe to be myself sexually even if it was embarrasing or awkward.”

    J.M., Teacher

  • “I strongly recommend Kaia Luna's 1:1 mentorship. Kaia has changed my life. I never thought about sexuality in a spiritual way before working with Kaia; she showed me that we can tap into our sex as a source of transformative energy. Kaia embodies and exudes powerful energy and enthusiasm for life that is infectious, but she is also unusually mature and knowledgeable spiritually.”

    Andy, Musician

  • “Because Kaia made me feel so comfortable, I was able to be totally open and exposed in a safe environment. I have more confidence in general now, and am enjoying sex much more. I hope your path leads you to Kaia too, she is a one-of-a-kind female embodiment of enlightened energy, she is truly a dakini.”

    Clayton, Coach

  • “Magic is the perfect word for this. I didn’t expect anything like that from our session.”

    L.P., Therapist

  • “Kaia is very natural at what she does. She helped light the path for me to see a part of myself that was so lost in the dark. Thank you Kaia from my heart and my soul that we co-created such an incredible and enlightening experience.”

    E.L., Creative Director

  • "Thank you for such an amazing, truly transcending and transformational experience.”

    Bradley, Financial Advisor

  • "It's like you took me to a state of consciousness I haven't been to before. You offered me a space where I can be anything and everything and not feel judged or uncomfortable. I was my raw self with all the walls I've built up over the years finally stripped back.”

    Greg, Therapist

  • “Thank you so much for everything - the thrills, the potent teachings, transformational experiences and for being there in support and helping me through all of this.”

    Jake, Writer and Director

  • “Our session was one of the most life changing experiences that I’ve ever had. You proved to me that the type of human connection I want is possible and exists. The pleasure was amazing and it was a deep soulful experience. My body shame didn’t matter. You should be so proud of the things that you do in this world, Kaia.”

    Mike, Entrepreneur

  • “You were everything I was hoping for. A real Tantrika who embodies the pure spirit of Tantra sourced from a compassionate and kind place. I had an amazing time and my Tantra journey will take an arc upwards as I embody and pass on what I learned.”

    Jeff, Tantric Guide